The Moon, Mercury and the Ascendant in the signs
Knowing the person you love also means coming closer to their inner world and to the way they share it. Two people with the same Sun sign can organize their time and hold a conversation in very different ways. To see those differences, the password is completed with the Moon and Mercury: the Moon shows imagination and the handling of time; Mercury, communication.
The Ascendant adds another perspective: the way we show ourselves to others. Its twelve descriptions, together with those of the Moon and Mercury, broaden the reading of the natal sign. The criterion stays the same: compare these interpretations with the person and with their story.
To observe in your relationship
Go back to these descriptions with two recent moments in mind:
- When you and your partner were able to choose how to spend your time, what did each of you enjoy, and which activity did each of you want to stretch out? At what point did you begin to need different things?
- In your last difficult conversation, what weighed more: what was said, the tone of voice or the moment chosen?
Answering from a concrete situation helps you recognize what is really happening between you and revisit the first impressions of this reading.
There are also emotions that appear before we know how to put them into words. Those reactions, and the possibility of recognizing them so we can choose how to respond to the person we love, have their own guide.