Lovers
Astrology guides for couples
What astrology can tell you about your relationship, topic by topic.
Know yourselves
Knowing your partner as they are, not as you imagine them
Why we confuse the real person with the partner we imagine, and how astrology can help you know them without boxing them in.
What you bring to love: inventory 1 and inventory 2
Your family and cultural history, and your birth chart: the two inventories each person brings to a relationship, from the password to the houses.
The childhood wound and the patterns we repeat as a couple
How childhood wounds repeat in the way we love, choose a partner and react to conflict.
How to use astrology to understand your relationship
What astrology can tell you about your partner, what details you need, and where to start depending on what worries you today.
The love you can build together
From emotional encounter to shared life: how to bring together what you find in both charts, and three tasks to care for the bond.
Resources and term equivalences
Where to get birth charts, and how this system's terms map to the traditional ones: elements, modalities and dignities.
Compatibility
Compatible, complementary or incompatible: four ways to meet
The difference between compatibility, complementarity, incompatibility and no relation in a couple, and why none of them decides its fate.
Are we compatible? Five signs of affinity in the birth chart
The five signs of a first affinity: the elements, the Sun on the other's Ascendant or Descendant, Venus with Venus, and the Sun with the Moon.
The planets in love
The Moon, Mercury and the Ascendant in a relationship
How each person imagines, communicates and shows themselves according to their Moon, Mercury and Ascendant, with questions to notice it in your relationship.
Emotions in a relationship, according to the planets
Venus, Mars, Jupiter and Saturn as generators of emotion: affection, anger, joy and risk in life as a couple.
Synastry
Rhythms, interests and decisions
When your partner doesn't want the same plans
One weekend, two plans: how a difference in rhythm turns into a judgment about love, and questions to talk it over and decide together.
Different rhythms as a couple: free time and agreements
Why one person wants to move and the other to rest, how two charts' rhythms are compared, and where you can meet.
How your element score is worked out (17 points)
The thirteen positions and seventeen points that measure your mobility, your motivations and the way you decide.
Why your partner isn't interested in the same things
Personal, home, social and transcendent motivations: how they combine in a couple and where to find shared interests.
How couples make decisions: leadership, self-motivation and adaptability
Who decides, who holds steady and who adapts: the leadership, self-motivated and adaptable signs in life as a couple.