For Libra, the world is beauty, etiquette and harmony: a work of art experienced through the senses. Like someone slowly drawing the nectar from a flower, they may want to prolong what is pleasant without a decision interrupting the moment.
They enjoy sharing experiences and finding agreement. They are sensitive to noise, to discord and to settings that lack aesthetic care. In their relationships they usually act with diplomacy, choose their bonds carefully and offer themselves as mediators in conflicts.
When they have several options, they may remain undecided for a long time, stirring impatience in those waiting for an answer. Their surroundings influence their mood, and they find it easy to shift from one emotional state to another depending on what is happening around them.
In social life they prefer well-kept settings with a certain formality. Their conciliatory disposition shows among their friends and, when they find a clear goal, it helps them carry important projects forward.
How to win their heart
Take care with your personal appearance and with the setting you share. For this profile, the visual experience and attention to detail carry special weight in attraction.
If they find it hard to decide, you can help them with suggestions that clarify the options, without turning that help into pressure. Mind your tone of voice too: fights and shrill sounds can make them shut down before they hear what someone wants to tell them.
What pleases them
- Beauty, both in nature and in art.
- Bodily sensuality.
- Experiencing contemplation as a form of enjoyment.
- Receiving help in deciding.
- Not feeling obliged to take sides in every argument.
What they dislike
- Shrill or screeching noises.
- Pressure to decide immediately.
- Untidiness and carelessness in personal appearance.
- Arguments and disputes that burst into the atmosphere without their having chosen to take part in them.
Strengths
- A capacity for creating beauty and harmony.
- Skill at building atmospheres of courtesy and well-being in which their friends feel at ease.
- Diplomacy and refinement in social dealings.
- Leadership that seeks to persuade rather than impose.
- A capacity for considering opposing points of view and helping to resolve conflicts.
- An ease in creating comfortable conditions.
Weaknesses
- Difficulty leaving settings or relationships that harm them when, at the same time, those settings or relationships offer them pleasant sensory experiences.
- Reluctance to complain for fear of striking a wrong note, even in situations that hurt them.
- Indecision when they have little time or see no clear advantage among the options.
- Feeling overwhelmed by aesthetic conditions they find unpleasant.
- A tendency to stay in painful situations if they find no support to get out of them.
- Vulnerability to friends of a more overbearing character.
- A mood that depends heavily on their surroundings.
- Ambiguous positions that can make commitment difficult.