Venus in Libra seeks harmony, beauty and kindness in love, and gives themselves easily to the world of feelings. Venus also rules Libra. In this sign they may give themselves spontaneously without stopping to consider all the consequences of a commitment.
The atmosphere affects their mood. They enjoy pleasant surroundings, good taste, elegance and good manners. In choosing a partner, visual attraction and the way the person treats others may carry considerable weight.
They avoid confrontation and want to stay on good terms with everyone. Arguments, rudeness and repeated fights drive them away. That same search for harmony can make decisions hard: they fear displeasing others and drag out situations that need to be settled.
They may be slow to commit or to choose between two romantic possibilities. If they stay in a relationship they no longer want because they don’t dare to decide, the discomfort may show up in private as constant irritation, while in public they keep their charming manner. Avoiding an argument can keep up appearances without resolving the discomfort.