They correspond to most points falling in Cancer, Leo and Virgo. Their range of interest takes in the family and the friends the person considers part of it.
Someone oriented this way needs to think about the well-being of the whole. Their decisions don’t usually stop at what benefits them individually: they also take into account how those who share their home or their closest circle of affection will fare. Caring for that group is a source of motivation.
Home motivations predominate
The person feels driven to take part in family activities and in whatever furthers the well-being of their loved ones. They cultivate close, lasting bonds and may include their most steady friends as part of an extended family.
The hardships, crises and disagreements of that circle affect them intensely, even when they aren’t happening to them directly. They find it hard to separate their own well-being from that of the people they feel are family.
When one sign predominates
If the points concentrate in Cancer
If the points concentrate in Cancer. They are interested in caring for others. They may find satisfaction in cooking, household chores and the activities through which they look after those they love.
In this system’s description, they tend to feel more ready to act at night than early in the morning.
If the points concentrate in Leo
If the points concentrate in Leo. They are motivated by surrounding themselves with comfort and making the home feel pleasant and distinguished. They devote attention and energy to how that space presents itself to others.
They may care about projecting the image of a “happy family” among their friends. They also value having their family attend the events they take part in: to them, that presence expresses support and recognition.
If the points concentrate in Virgo
If the points concentrate in Virgo. They look for the comforts that let them enjoy their time at home as they like. They care that responsibilities are shared out and that each member carries out the duties agreed on for the home to run well.
The system describes two expressions of this tendency: some people are very organized; others collect objects they don’t know when they’ll use but don’t want to part with. Both ways of relating to domestic space make themselves felt when living together.
As a couple
When both have home motivations predominating
They prefer family activities and long-standing friendships, or friends with whom they feel “like family.” They enjoy staying at home and, if they go out, they tend to prefer doing it together or with a small close group.
They also like having guests over. For each of them it’s important to be accepted by the other’s family and for their own family to welcome their partner. If one of them has children, it will be necessary to respect the time and space they devote to that relationship.
Personal and home
The person with personal motivations may see their partner’s family as intrusive and feel that their partner depends too much on the family group to make decisions. The person with home motivations, on the other hand, may read the focus on one’s own goals as selfishness.
If there are other areas of affinity, recognizing these needs will help them look for agreements: how much room they will give to family life and which decisions each wants to make independently.
Home and social
The person with home motivations prefers family activities, enjoys having guests over and feels their close friends to be an extended family.
The person with social motivations tends to be more measured about taking part in family events. They are drawn to new places and the chance to spend time with their friends and with people they have just met.
If there are other areas of compatibility, they can look for agreements about how much time to share at home, how much to devote to family and how much to life outside it.
Home and transcendent
This relationship can find affinity when there are other points of compatibility. For the person with home motivations, taking an active part in family occasions is important.
The person with transcendent motivations may throw themselves completely into research, metaphysics or humanitarian and scientific interests, without needing to limit their partner’s activities.
Constantly pressing the other person to attend every family event can be frustrating, especially if they don’t feel comfortable there. Choosing some activities to share, instead, leaves room for both people’s individual interests.
One meeting point of this combination is a liking for the privacy of home, although each enjoys it in their own way.
If both have home motivations in second place
Family activities, creating a welcoming home and a liking for having guests over can form a space of affinity. This match can unite them even when their main motivations lead them toward different activities.
Perhaps each has friends so close that they feel like family. Respecting those bonds and avoiding excluding them makes living together easier. At the same time, it will be necessary to leave room for the activities that belong to each one’s predominant motivation.